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rakshasa_claw

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Jan 05, 2006 02:44

Alright, I need your opinion on something. I have a friend here in Omaha that is perfectly fine talking with me online maybe once a week, yet whenever I want to hang out, they find a way to dodge it and leave before we actually make some set plans. Are they a friend or not ( Read more... )

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psychocy January 5 2006, 09:29:19 UTC

It could be a lot of reasons. Maybe it's a little bit too early to be hanging out in real life. Maybe they're paranoid about internet stalkers. I wouldn't worry about it too much. If the time comes, just take it in stride.

rakshasa_claw January 5 2006, 09:48:46 UTC

This is someone that I met through a friend in high school, and I've hung out with on numerous occasions.

psychocy January 5 2006, 17:57:06 UTC

Well if they don't seem to hang out with you, stop trying and just stick to talking online.

rakshasa_claw January 5 2006, 18:37:33 UTC

I don't really need another online friend... it's more that I feel like I've been cut off, put in the backseat. If I'm gonna just stick to being an online friend, then I don't think I'm gonna bother being friends at all. That's the dilemma.

hallucino January 5 2006, 18:37:19 UTC

It may all come down to paranoia. If it gets too annoying to convince them might as well leave it.

rakshasa_claw January 5 2006, 18:38:46 UTC

I guess I should clarify... this is someone I've known and met in person several dozen times.

jethr0paladin January 6 2006, 04:26:00 UTC

Maybe he's worried that you're gay?
...nah, that's too high school-ish.

Just show up at his door sometime. I do that to Elise from time to time, and while she never comes with me, I still "hang out" with her, persay.

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jethr0paladin January 6 2006, 04:30:29 UTC

Oh. Bring your girlfriend then. Maybe she thinks you're hitting on her... are you? ARE YOU?!

rakshasa_claw January 6 2006, 04:41:45 UTC

If my girlfriend wasn't 1,000 miles away, that'd be an idea.