trimming

[ranchlamb]

I just did some friends list trimming. If you were one of the people that can no longer read my journal and wonder why. The reason is because I feel we have grown apart

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[ex_midnightf139]

*hugs* Sorry that you're feeling down. Maybe a break from communities and stuff is a good idea?
I haven't been able to talk to you online recently. But you seem to log in later at night, closer to the time I usually go to bed at night.

[ranchlamb]

well we are in different time zones. So when I get the chance to log in its normally late for others. I'm normally online in the mornings and evenings. When I'm home throughout the day I'm online in the afternoon.
I decided to clean out my aim list mainly because there were a couple of people on there that I wanted to be friends with but they completly stopped talking to me. I would IM them and then a few minutes later they would log off or just never respond. Not once can I remember them sending me the message first any way, and I'm tired of always being the first one to call, first to im, first to write... that type of thing, I figure if they want to be friends with me then they would do that stuff to. Or am I just mistaken?

[ex_midnightf139]

It makes sense that you'd expect them to initiate at least some. I can understand to a point with shier people. They're often too timid to speak first. I have a couple friends who are like that. I, myself, sometimes worry about IMing someone first, because I'm worried that I'll bother them. Still, I try to IM first at least sometimes. So, I believe you have the right to feel that way.

[ranchlamb]

I always figured if they are on aim then they must want me to bother them :) after all aim is for chatting.