I was being vauge on purpose...randomdent45May 10 2005, 16:16:12 UTC
the question would be better posed... A) persuing a woman who your emotional attachment is less than desirible but your sexual activities and adventure could possibly meet your wildest dreams. or B) a woman who you fully love but would have to restrict your sexual behavior to a more 'ordinary'. Knowing that you'll never get what you might consider, the most out of a sexual relationship.
I kinda hope this comment is far enough back that people don't find it.
Re: I was being vauge on purpose...eenfidelMay 10 2005, 20:10:34 UTC
Ahhh. In that case, my aim has always been to broaden the horizons of the one I could have a deeper relationship with. Everyone can learn, and if she loves you she'll want to.
Staying with someone who's sexually more adventurous but whom you're not attached to as much emotionally will eventually make you hate her for holding you back, and not being the right person. I've done it a few times.
You could also lock this entry so only you could see it, you realize.
Re: I was being vauge on purpose...kisa500May 20 2005, 16:32:47 UTC
i think that if you search for something perfect then you will miss out on some wonderful things/experiences/people within the present and will never really find what you seek. (this was in part a response to the phone convo)
to the above post: i would definately say go for someone you love, if the relationship works out then with time the girl will become more open and more comfortable and more willing to try new things with you. Whereas if you go for person A, you'll be satisfied at firt, but after a while, you'll grow tired of her and realize that something is missing.
but then again, this is just my opinion, which is entirely based on my own views, so hey , maybe it's not right for you.
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A) persuing a woman who your emotional attachment is less than desirible but your sexual activities and adventure could possibly meet your wildest dreams.
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B) a woman who you fully love but would have to restrict your sexual behavior to a more 'ordinary'. Knowing that you'll never get what you might consider, the most out of a sexual relationship.
I kinda hope this comment is far enough back that people don't find it.
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Staying with someone who's sexually more adventurous but whom you're not attached to as much emotionally will eventually make you hate her for holding you back, and not being the right person. I've done it a few times.
You could also lock this entry so only you could see it, you realize.
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to the above post: i would definately say go for someone you love, if the relationship works out then with time the girl will become more open and more comfortable and more willing to try new things with you. Whereas if you go for person A, you'll be satisfied at firt, but after a while, you'll grow tired of her and realize that something is missing.
but then again, this is just my opinion, which is entirely based on my own views, so hey , maybe it's not right for you.
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