Inspired by SATC

[randriantastic]

How does one know how high the bar is in terms of people you're allowed to go for? Where are the boundaries between settling for a loser, comfortable acceptance, and pining after the impossible? One of my friends (who isn't a complete fug case or anything) said to me that the guys I tend to be interested in are guys he would think of as out of his

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[mottledpigeon]

No one is out of anyone's league, what kind of fucked up shit is that? Your friend needs a kick in the shins. That's stupid thinking.

[randriantastic]

On some level I agree with you, but on the other hand one shouldn't be setting oneself up for a fall all the time... no?