Loss.......

Dec 13, 2008 02:28

I had to handle a situation last night that reminded me of my mortality. I saw something happen right in front of me that I wish I never had to see again ( Read more... )

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urabyfirst December 13 2008, 14:35:26 UTC
What happend?!?!?!? Please call.

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urabyfirst December 13 2008, 14:47:36 UTC
Oh, and by the way, YOU STILL ARE A GOOD MAN. Reguardless of what happend last night, it will NEVER be otherwise, and I will never believe otherwise.

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white_howler December 13 2008, 15:48:20 UTC
This is Kat.
Life is a precious thing, and if you have learned that pride cometh before a fall then alright.
The problem is, when we don't know what happened, we're not sure how to help.

And, though you may have always known the price of hesitation, you may not have truly understood it. Now you know.

The only way you could have failed us is if we thought you were a failure.

If you wallow in your failure, and refuse to make yourself better because you're too busy wallowing in "oh what a horrible person I am" then and ONLY then, do you START to become awful. Notice I did ot say monster or failure. You are neither.

Failure is a reminder of many things that are true: mortality, preciousness of life, the need to learn. Failure is not an indicator of weakness. Letting failure overcome you with apathy and guilt is weak. Letting failure become a necessary reminder of the important things in life is an amazing strength.

You've got the strength, never forget that.

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