small update

[rapturedevoted]

Well Crys ended up talking to me later that night after I made my last post. I guess she just needed time to organize her thoughts before she spoke to anyone about her stresses. She's talked to me a lot since then, saying that she wants to get to the point where she tells me everything. That made me feel good, especially since I never even

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[baalitlaura]

I can relate to feeling "unbalanced" in terms of secondary partners. I've had a boyfriend for about 4 months (longest poly relationship for me) and I really didn't expect my husband to be jealous of the my relationship in that, he wants to have a "heart connection" too. However, everyone is different - I've heard this mentioned on the polyweekly podcast - we feel like we need to be "even" or "fair" with our primaries when that's really not possible. I think that it's just part of the deal when you sign up for polyamory. Perhaps your boyfriend just needs to schedule something really fun for himself when you are with Crys. That's what I do when the boyfriend is busy.

just my thoughts :)