As I said in my original post. I am not angry, or pissed, Im disappointed. Im not even so much disappointed that you didnt make it, I am disappointed that if I hadnt said something about it or had emailed you or done something to contact you...I never would have found out anything.
As you once told me with regards to someone who was supposed to help you move. "It wasnt that he couldnt make it out to help me like he said he would, it was that he didnt even bother to let me know."
Is it too much to ask that when you make plans, that if your going to cancel or not show that you at least let me know?
I actually had a post about it all typed up yesterday morning... but LJ flaked on me and I was so pissed that I didn't retype it. >.< I had always planned on explaining why I wasn't there, as it was actually Nat and Soco for whom I was attending at all, as they asked me to come.
And you ARE right... I got SO pissed when he didn't call. However, I see a BIG diff in making a PROMISE to be somewhare... and saying you're gonna try and make it somewhere. Different when someone's entire plan and calculations for a day are based on you, than that your presence is an added bonus.
I'm glad you're not pissed... that make me feel better. ^_^ I really had no way to get in touch with anyone till AFTER the event anyway. And like I said, I HAD posted... save for the fact that LJ can bite me when it decides to be slow and lose my junk. At least you know I won't be skipping out on you this weekend. I always make it to FH. *rolls eyes at self*
Im sorry. I did not realize the word "Promise" needed to be included, I was basing it more off the intent of the wording then the symantics of verbage.
I am sorry I misunderstood your email, you are correct that you never used the word promise.
It still remains to be seen if I will be in attendance this weekend. I may make it, I may not. If I am not able to make it please leave my stuff with Nat and she will get it to me at work on Monday.
As for the rest... that's just a general 'this is how it is' for everyone's information. That part is NOT directed at any one person, or group of folks. You've heard me make that same rant plenty of times. I've nothing to hide, that's why it's a public entry.
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As you once told me with regards to someone who was supposed to help you move. "It wasnt that he couldnt make it out to help me like he said he would, it was that he didnt even bother to let me know."
Is it too much to ask that when you make plans, that if your going to cancel or not show that you at least let me know?
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And you ARE right... I got SO pissed when he didn't call. However, I see a BIG diff in making a PROMISE to be somewhare... and saying you're gonna try and make it somewhere. Different when someone's entire plan and calculations for a day are based on you, than that your presence is an added bonus.
I'm glad you're not pissed... that make me feel better. ^_^ I really had no way to get in touch with anyone till AFTER the event anyway. And like I said, I HAD posted... save for the fact that LJ can bite me when it decides to be slow and lose my junk. At least you know I won't be skipping out on you this weekend. I always make it to FH. *rolls eyes at self*
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I am sorry I misunderstood your email, you are correct that you never used the word promise.
It still remains to be seen if I will be in attendance this weekend. I may make it, I may not. If I am not able to make it please leave my stuff with Nat and she will get it to me at work on Monday.
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As for the rest... that's just a general 'this is how it is' for everyone's information. That part is NOT directed at any one person, or group of folks. You've heard me make that same rant plenty of times. I've nothing to hide, that's why it's a public entry.
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You have a special place in my heart!!
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