I understand it seems difficult right now, but you NEED to take care of yourself for you. You can not heal if you are not healthy. Wallow for a while, because grieving is important too, but then use this time as me time, to work on yourself. (hugs)
Yup, this. Exactly this. Work on making yourself the best you you can. Do all the stuff you love doing. Revel in not having to worry about another persons input on anything. For me, the best advice was to get through every day as though everything was normal and then I would cry in the shower at night, and a little bit before bed. and that was it. I didn't let myself sit around feeling sorry. I went to the gym, the beach, stores, threw myself into school. It's compartmentalizing, but it works.
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Work on making yourself the best you you can. Do all the stuff you love doing. Revel in not having to worry about another persons input on anything.
For me, the best advice was to get through every day as though everything was normal and then I would cry in the shower at night, and a little bit before bed. and that was it. I didn't let myself sit around feeling sorry. I went to the gym, the beach, stores, threw myself into school. It's compartmentalizing, but it works.
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