Phillip and I, reavaluating.

[razorblade_jinx]

Ok, this is a VERY self indulgent entry. You probably shouldn't take the time to read it. I am making it public only because i have a rule that i make all entries public but, really, i wrote it for myself. To get shit out, to feel better, to organize my thoughts.. whatever. So you can read and comment if you want, but you have been warned

Comments

[silent_five]

I'm not presuming to offer you advice, which is okay because I know you will ignore this if it suits you. So I'm taking that as an excuse to volunteer my thoughts. Which are that having got used to someone is the worst kind of inertia if the relationship is really not good for you. And that people who are just not inclined to be the happy, caring, outgoing type you would like them to be will not ever cheer up, even when you do your best to make them cheer up. All they do is drag you down into that glum space while making you feel as though your efforts are fruitless. (This is sounding familiar to me, no? :D) Anyway, good luck with the whole bit and I miss you buckets and such.

[hughmacrannald]

# John Scalzi on 12 Nov at pm Anne: Well, you know, I’m not talking about myself there; I’m really not a Christian.

[lacyroch]

# John Scalzi on 12 Nov at pm Anne: Well, you know, I’m not talking about myself there; I’m really not a Christian.

[toasteraviator]

I have many things to say about all of this, but if you want to hear them, you'll have to ask me for them.

[alexanderplace]

If you do that you'll know what you want to hear, and you'll end up with an accurate idea of what they want to hear from you.

[toasteraviator]

Who is "you" and who is "they" in your comment?

[malcolmludingt]

  “When you say things like that, it makes me feel like you don’t value all the nice things I try to do to make you happy.