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[rbshepcofrosh03]

In the last few weeks I've come to the realization that I've been away from Shepherd University for almost as long as I was a student and it's pretty surreal. The person who entered that institution back in 2003 is vastly different than my waking self in 2011. In acknowledging this, I've uncovered something that has come to my attention:

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[mekare_enra]

I can really relate to this post. :) I also particularly liked this part of the end paragraph: "I've become acutely aware that I don't need to do things to impress others or please others, that my actions should be borne from an honest desire. That I can grow even in those situations when I may not have the approval of others." I feel the same, and I think that the development of that awareness has made me a happier and more confident person. :)

[rbshepcofrosh03]

I agree completely with your assessment of being a more confident and happier person as a result! Very well put, and thanks for being able to relate. sometimes, it's nice to know that there are others who not only understand what I mean to say, but also agree or feel similar in their own thoughts.

I think self confidence and self awareness are things that are inherently linked, if approached from a grounded/balanced foundation. Sometimes, people might use their self-awareness to lead themselves into self-defeating generalizations or self fulfilling negative prophecies.

who knows, though...