Are you shitting me right now?

[readmyletters]

Why do boys have to say stuff about someone and you agree and you think they will be sympathetic to what you have to say because they are in the exact same boat you are but then they twist your words and make you sound like a shitty person and like it's all your fault when it's not and HE'S THE ONE WHO STARTED THE CONVERSATION IN THE FIRST PLACE

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[thelibertine]

Oh, I hate that. It amazes me sometimes how my husband turns everything I say around and makes me look like an asshole. I just wonder if they do it out of stupidity, if they really believe in what they're saying, or if they actually do it on purpose. I hope it's stupidity, because if they do it on purpose, then that's just sad. It kinda means basically most men are sadistic bastards, and that's a scary thought.

[readmyletters]

I honestly don't even know how he comes of with some of the shit he says. Like, if that's how his brain is really processing what I'm saying, then holy jesus homeboy needs to slow it down and actually listen to what I'm saying and see it from my perspective. Like, I want to think it's just him, it's just because he's a guy, but at the same time I could see him doing it on purpose because sometimes that't just the kind of person he is.

[thelibertine]

Sometimes I think guys catch onto one of the first things you say, get pissed off and then everything else you say just goes past their brain or they automatically turn it around under the angle that fits their current perception distorted by their anger.