Relationz

[reaisan]

"I want to have intercooourse with you. Relations." Just so you know where I got the title from.

But anyway, I was thinking about on-and-off relationships as a result of the past few days (and online quizzes). And I think that it's kind of dumb  to keep trying to make things work with one person when there's like seven billion others to try. "You

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[es_magia]

I don't think reconsidering your ex is like taking a vomit-y carpet back in...

And I agree w/ the standards thing. Never settle.
...Unless all hope is gone and you're old I guess.

[reaisan]

I think so. :( If something went wrong, why not try someone new. n_n New fluffy carpet is nice.

It's just that I've seen a lot of people that go on-and-off over and over again (before, ya know, eventually realizing for realz that they don't want to date each other). I don't think I'd want to go through that really, not at my age. xD Why do I "have to try and make things work?" I'm not married!

If things don't work out, it's not too late to try someone else. x_x You're not forced to take them back in. Unless of course you're no spring chicken and the pickings are slim, lol. Then just be lucky you ever got some I guess. xD

[es_magia]

Well, I understand you're point of view but sometimes people break up for dumb reasons that aren't breakup worthy. I guess I'll go back to using the carpet. What if you thought you saw a spot on the carpet and threw it out when the spot was really just a shadow and you were standing in bad light?

[reaisan]

Yeaaah. e_o I was kinda basing it off of some baaad, extremeo cases, huh?

If you realize it was a shadow, then go back out. <3 That's breaking up under false pretenses. If it really was dirty carpet, just don't feel obligated to try and scrub the spot clean. You can scrub it out if you want, though. Sometimes it's worth it.

But really for most college-aged kids, it would be better to just date someone else. D: From what I've seen here on campus, it's a world of hook-ups. Most don't go for the type of relationships that you and I wound up with. They think they do, lol. I've always recommend people to "date casually" in college. But I would never recommend it to you or Hunter, so there are always exceptions to the advice. :) Five months, really? Cool beanz.