If everyone got turned on by political ranting, nobody would disagree about anything. They'd just say, "Bring on the ranting! I don't care what it's about! I don't care if I agree! Ohhhhh yeaaaaaah!"
No! It's not true! I'm attracted to men who wear black (and possibly spikes) but I don't want to emulate them. I want to wear adorable floaty, twirly cream dresses with little roses and to have brown hair, pink cheeks and no mascara! And I want them to like me the way I like me, though I'm not sure that they do.
Ooh, thankyou. I like adorableness. But I'm traumatised because the ex was this kind of uber romantic goth (you know - the kind who wants to look better than everyone and wears overly formal or medieval gothique stuff everywhere when everyone else is wearing jeans and a t-shirt - the kind of fashion I wince at and have sympathy-embarassment for) and he was always having subtle (or not) ways to make me more like the girls he was used to - too much makeup (except no blush), high heels, lace and velvet.
I have found recently that I don't really care what someone wears if I want them as a friend/ fancy them (except I can't really fancy anyone in hip hop gear - some prejudices may never be erased). I don't care what music they listen to. It just doesn't seem important anymore. I hardly notice what Adam wears - it doesn't even matter that he wears shorts, for example (I don't like shorts). It is so liberating, and I can worry about more important things about them.
Jenna doesn't mind what I wear at all. I mean, she only ever saw me all goth'd up or in skirts and that was what attracted her to me, but most of the time I'm actually a bum. In winter, when it's cold enough for stockings, it's easier to make my wardrobe look a bit more interesting, or goth/punk/whatever rather than just torn bummyness.
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I have found recently that I don't really care what someone wears if I want them as a friend/ fancy them (except I can't really fancy anyone in hip hop gear - some prejudices may never be erased). I don't care what music they listen to. It just doesn't seem important anymore. I hardly notice what Adam wears - it doesn't even matter that he wears shorts, for example (I don't like shorts). It is so liberating, and I can worry about more important things about them.
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Jenna doesn't mind what I wear at all. I mean, she only ever saw me all goth'd up or in skirts and that was what attracted her to me, but most of the time I'm actually a bum. In winter, when it's cold enough for stockings, it's easier to make my wardrobe look a bit more interesting, or goth/punk/whatever rather than just torn bummyness.
Who is this Adam person, hey?
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