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[red_ceilidh]

Mom's colostomy surgery has been over for almost 24 hours. She still has not come out from under the anesthetic. Her pupils are unequal but reactive. She does not react to any stimuli. She's on a ventilator, NG tube, and miles of wires and IV's. It's absolutely horrible how she can look so much like a corpse, and look so uncomfortable at the

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[pjhandley]

big big hugs for you. I know it's hard, but sometimes the best you can do is make your mom as comfortable as possible, and just let her go. Watching my mom waste away in those final days was really hard, but we didn't want her to be in pain anymore. As difficult as it may be, tell her you love her and that it's ok to let go.

As for the other issue? The only person's feelings you have any control over are your own. You're not the villian or the victim here. Just know that you have friends who love you dearly, and want the best for you.

You have been there for my family in tough times, and we're here for you.

[imandunewen]

We love you dearly, and you and your family are in our thoughts. I wish there was more we could do for you. *hug*

[uraniumman]

*hugs*

[sisucore]

So sorry you hear this. This can't be easy. Sending you love, strength and peace.

[foxontherun]

:( I'm so sorry, Elizabeth. I remember going through something similar with my dad and us having to decide what to do. It definitely isn't easy, and I want you know I am thinking of you and sending you my love and all the positive vibes I can. *huge huge hugs*

If you need to talk to someone, please feel free to call me. I will always listen.