1. I saw Eddie Izzard last night with L2 and he was delightful as always. And super hot in his tux and heels and eyeliner. If I were looking for a romantic partner, an action transvestite is really what I'd want <3.
2. Gallifrey season 3 is getting SO GOOD I CAN'T TAKE IT. Every time I listen to an ep I take a month break in between because I get
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Especially as I've noticed a LOT of people on tumblr don't want a discussion, they want to state their opinion, and watch out for the rocks if you dare disagree...
But really, interacting with new people? Yeah, good luck with that. It's not easy at all :(
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But...if they disagreed with the post, why wouldn't they go after the person that wrote it, instead of the person that reblogged it? That doesn't make a lot of sense to me.
it was about the trigger warnings, I still get annoyed about that.
I only saw bits and pieces of that, and I people on both sides saying stupid crap on what could have been a reasonable, illuminating discussion. But, for you personally, as far as I know/remember someone asked you for a trigger warning (in kind of a snotty way), and your response was "I'm not sure if I agree with you, but sure I'll add in a warning if you want one". Like, how is that anything other than a 100% reasonable, correct response? I don't understand why anyone could have a problem with your response in the context that it was presented. Fandom, why.
basically, tumblr often feels a bit like high school again.
I wouldn't even go that far. It's middle school level bullshit.
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I haven't quite got the whole making connections with new people thing yet
Lol, if you figure this out, please share with the class!
I also feel like it's hard to connect with people without having fandom discussions, which is hard, or sharing personal stuff, which I am not cool doing if it can't be flocked, and I'm sort of amazed that people are so open about stuff. I mean, not that I'm a horrible person online but my "fanart" (I use that term loosely) tumblr occasionally has racy stuff, and my other tumblr in addition to fandom has a lot of politics and nsfw stuff, so if anyone from RL found me it would potentially be very embarrassing/creepy.
because things move so much more quickly.This, totally. If you're not on tumblr all the time to be there when stuff is happening trying to ( ... )
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and yeah, discussion/meta do not work there. even message boards don't work half as well as LJ's threaded comments but at least they understand the fundamental principle of conversation.
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it's more like a shared noticeboard we all have a corner of.
I still find the tagging system a little awkward. Like, it makes perfect sense in theory and I like the idea of it, but when it comes to fandom it seems like you still get so many people doing weird stuff like tagging their hate because they don't know better, whereas you would rarely have someone join a community and then make a negative post?
I also am much more shy about posting something in the tags that I would in a themed comm. It doesn't make sense, because they're pretty much the same thing, but for some reason it feels like so much more pressure...
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I will never be too old for fandom but I certainly don't always hangout in the populated areas of fandom. Reminds me of when I started to read X-Files fics and then realized I was actually part of a bigger fandom. Back them I was still not savvy enough to mess with message boards (plus I had a infant & was perpetually exhausted) but managed conversation on webpages.
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Yeah, I remember the old days of webpages and then mailing lists and message boards, and remember being excited when it became easier to communicate (commenting on a journal fic entry rather than having to email the author directly? Brilliant!) so I guess I'm disgruntled that now it's moving in the opposite direction. Maybe it will swing back this way eventually? Maybe instead of old I meant cranky...
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God yes, this is the WORST part of tumblr. It's so scattershot and difficult to keep a hold of any sort of discussion.
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