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[redefine_i]

I've gone from feeling down-on-the-pits to a slightly better mode of happy in hmm, less than 8 hours.

The unexpected appearance of people filling up all the seats in the area where I usually seat at work got me looking for a place with an empty seat, and a kinder blow of the air conditioner, given the colds I've managed to obtain this week - after

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[just_jenni]

Good for you. You are right about all that you wrote. It's so terribly difficult sometimes, but for your own sake you must not let other peoples' negativity affect you.

The best workplaces I've ever been in were those with strict rules against too much socializing while working. It was believed that leaving your personal life at home and no gossiping put everyone on a certain level of equality that resulted in fewer arguments and feelings of resentment toward the other workers. It really worked. Everyone felt more respected and happier, and were able to do their jobs better.

Anyway, I am glad that your attitude is more positive than your coworkers'. You should never have to explain yourself to others. And you are so right - looks should never be something important. I don't like dwelling on the superficial to the detriment of the really important things about people.

Anyway, I just wanted to give you a pat on the back. :)

[redefine_i]

aww, thank you. i'm glad to hear of like-minded people like you out there