Checking in...

[redindigo]

I don't really have anywhere to put this that is safe, so I'll put it here and wave hello.  It's been about a year since a friendship ended in the midst of great despair and tumult, and at a cost far heftier than the friendship was truly worth.  Moving back out to the suburbs, losing the freedom and novelty of the city - well, it's all been hard.

Comments

[misshawklet]

A friendship ending is a relationship break up, so I think its normal for feelings to linger and you never really "get over it". I also think other "friends" not reaching out speaks volumes.

You have good friends. Hold them dear and fuck everyone else!

[kriket24]

hey. remember me. i'm still around, too, sporadically. i have experienced things that sound similar to what you're describing in your post. and stuff happens that will trigger some of those same feelings you're describing...eh, all to say, "yeah."