Good girls like bad boys???

Oct 07, 2003 17:07

Why are girls (and maybe guys??) attracted to people who are so bad for them? People that we know have problems. People that we know will never be able to settle down and change their ways ( Read more... )

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dr_bonez October 7 2003, 22:09:55 UTC
and i'm always just the friend to any girl i meet its fucking shitty
all i ever get is your to good of a friend even after i know them for a few hours whats with that

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uberlackey October 29 2003, 15:06:46 UTC
usually it's the attitude; the drive and the knowledge of what you want and how you're going to get it.

nothing is as sexy as confidence. second sexy is fake confidence that people puff themselves up with as long as it's convincing.

..and if you believe that humans are just animals, the more dominant and assholeish of the species is the one to reproduce. the asshole is more biologically attractive then the nice guy.

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redlory October 29 2003, 19:57:11 UTC
"..and if you believe that humans are just animals, the more dominant and assholeish of the species is the one to reproduce. the asshole is more biologically attractive then the nice guy."

So true.
Funny how we aren't super attracted to the "stable" people though. One would think that we would (should) be attracted to people who would be good providers (emotionally and financially), good with children, etc.

Nope. Never get along with the ones who are there 24/7 tending to my every need. Thats just overwhelming.

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uberlackey October 29 2003, 21:06:04 UTC
I didn't say spineless lackey smothering types. that's dependant.

independent confidence, baybee!

..and you're right. women are attracted to the stable guys like that later in life when they want to nest :)

personally I like being my usual pseudo-asshole secret-niceness self that I am.

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redlory October 30 2003, 13:28:13 UTC
I always end up dating the guys who seem to be the super independent type....in the beginning. Then, as my best friend Chris says, "You turned another one into a little biatch!".
I have that talent I guess. Or curse. I think the later fits more.

Maybe its because I'm a self proclaimed bitch myself, who really happens to be overly nice and caring.

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