for once a week were i dont have to work every day. nice relaxation with a cup of green tea. it warm today, probably one of the last ones of the year
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but I'm glad to hear about your life, nice to see you on the self centered world of livejournal... Tara was right, it's nice to hear from people back home on a more regualr basis... cause I'm bad at making phone calls and the like
i just (couple months ago) got out of a two years plus non-relationship relationship, which actaully was a great thing for me while I was so busy. But it is truely rare for it to work out so well. Like I was WAY to busy to have a real relationship anyway, so might as well have a fake one where you get to have fun sex all the time. Don't be a player though man, that sucks, break up with party A before you go for party B. Don't be selfish, that ain't cool.
its not quite what you thinkredonkadonkdonkNovember 18 2004, 02:33:15 UTC
this is a pseudo-relationship that is the kind without benifits. thats the thing missing. its like haveing all the other shit but just no sex. but its not like a normal relationship with nagging and guilt and spite but more like the ideal type shit that doesnt usually happen in relationships i guess. i dont know. ive had like one girlfriend so im really not very well versed in this shit but i think its kinda backwards as far as most pseudo-relationships go. its fun and a little inapropriate. but i have to wait for "party b" as you put it bucause (you guessed it) shes got a man too. but i guess shes not into him or something. at least thats what i heard. time will tell eventually.
Re: its not quite what you thinkangrysquawNovember 18 2004, 03:14:08 UTC
OH, that's different, sounds like your good friends, but you want to make sweet sweet love also, um, yeah I'd love to say this ain't true, but then I'd be a liar too... cold hard fact is, lots of girls are a huge tease, sorry, but many of them don't even know when they're doing it, but if she knows that you like her, might be that she can't help but tease your aching loins... I try not to fall victim to this action, but it's like built in or something man.
not that I'm trying to be a pessamist or however you spell it, but I don't count on a relationship until it happens, unless you're really into being idealistic, then go for it
sometimes there is a value to an entirely different set of events happening in your head than what happens in the world around you...just realize that if you can't tell what's outside and what's inside, people's reactions will often differ from what you're expecting or what seems to make sense to you.
Massengil styleshoeyouNovember 17 2004, 17:36:43 UTC
Pseudo relationship thats something i never thought of i alwasy stuck with friends with benefits and once along time ago ~ in highschool when i was crazier than i am now it was "seeing eachother" yea we saw eachother allright.. anyways yea relationships can be rough especially when they're non-relationships . Just be careful and finish yer peas before you go for the carrots. The minute you get comfortable it gets ripped away tragically so yea easier said than done still . Good luck !
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but I'm glad to hear about your life, nice to see you on the self centered world of livejournal... Tara was right, it's nice to hear from people back home on a more regualr basis... cause I'm bad at making phone calls and the like
i just (couple months ago) got out of a two years plus non-relationship relationship, which actaully was a great thing for me while I was so busy. But it is truely rare for it to work out so well. Like I was WAY to busy to have a real relationship anyway, so might as well have a fake one where you get to have fun sex all the time. Don't be a player though man, that sucks, break up with party A before you go for party B. Don't be selfish, that ain't cool.
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not that I'm trying to be a pessamist or however you spell it, but I don't count on a relationship until it happens, unless you're really into being idealistic, then go for it
sometimes there is a value to an entirely different set of events happening in your head than what happens in the world around you...just realize that if you can't tell what's outside and what's inside, people's reactions will often differ from what you're expecting or what seems to make sense to you.
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