Sweet, someone who's as obsessed with getting married as I am! It's not that I want to get married tomorrow or anything, I just really like the idea of a giant, awesome party celebrating... me. And my awesome future-husband. That used to pretty much encapsulate my reasons for wanting to get married (so I guess it was a wedding that I wanted, not really a marriage). But now, the whole relationship-that-lasts-forever thing is rather appealing as well. And then we could do awesome things like live together and get a puppy and have babies and wear really lame matching old-people clothes when we're old
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"I always thought there were certain criteria my potential husband would have to fulfill, but they were all superficial/boring things. In retrospect, now that I think I've found the guy I want to marry (yeah, I said it), there are other, more tangible, and maybe more weird things that seem really vital. Like I need him to love children an awful lot, because I'm kind of afraid that I won't be able to love my kids enough. And I need him to value my job as much, if not more, than his own... cause he might have to move to Ohio or Georgia or some other crazy place so I can study monkeys. And I need him to be interested in random things and activities, cause sometimes I need a push to do that. Basically, instead of just wanting someone that would make me happy, I think I now want someone who will make me better."
Wow, Shil. You took the words out of my mouth. There's just nothing left to say!
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Wow, Shil. You took the words out of my mouth. There's just nothing left to say!
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