Holy Fuckballs

[reeses6826]

Ok, so if any of you are wondering where I've been for the past few weeks - I've been dealing with a personal issue that I just now, as in a few minutes ago, told both of my parents about (separately of course cause they're still fucking separated).

I am bisexual.

Years.  Years I've held that in and I finally told them (and you apparently).  I've

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[konicoffee]

Congratulations!

And a warm welcome. ♥

[reeses6826]

Thank you!!! :)

*hugs*

[dyedbyfilth]

Why be scared? I myself don't even know which way I swing, and everyone around me knows that. (at least the ones that know me) I say that because I believe there is no such thing as sexual orientation. I mean... you aren't attracted to the genetalia. And being attracted TO someone can be in many different ways (like physically, sexually, admiration, friendly, and so on)

I always said that I believe I am straight because I seem to only think men are hot (Other than Jyo and Omi of Exist Trace. They're the fucking shit and a bag of chips) but if I fall for a woman, then I fall for a woman. You don't control who you fall for.

Aside from that you could fall for anyone disreguarding Gender, Race, Age and Religion, since you don't control whether or not you're attracted to, or if you fall for a person. =D

But I'm happy for you for being able to grow the balls to come out. Most people keep it in, which is wrong. You should surround yourself with people who accept you for who you are, not for who you pretend to be. Get what I mean?

[reeses6826]

I think you have a really good way of thinking about it. Its true - you can't decide right now who you are going to be attracted to or love in the future, right? Its good that you are so open-minded :)

Thanks!!!

[dyedbyfilth]

Haha, yea, I'm either open-minded or just a fool. *hugs* Congrats for being able to admit it, not only to your family, but to accept yourself. I know that's hard. As I said, I believe I am straight, but then again I don't really believe in sexual oriention. It's like being an athiest within religion, you know? I mean, I call it as I see it! If I see someone, who in my opinion is physically attractive, I say, their/you're hot!

Though I think listening to Jrock helped enforce my way of thinking.When I first saw a really girly, crossdresser [can't think of who it was at the moment] I thought, Holy Crap I'm attracted to a female! She's hot! [I sound like a dude, huh?] then I found out it was a dude. I can't really say I was relieved though, lol. I just thought 'Oh... Alright then.... He's hot!] XD

[auss246]

Congrats on going public.. it must have been such a struggle trying to figure those personal issues out!

[reeses6826]

Yea it was. Now that I've said it out loud, I feel better already :)

Thanks!!!

[reeses6826]

*hugs back super-tight*
Thanks!!! I've missed you too and our long conversations XD

Haha, I'm glad to know that if I develop a gorilla-fetish in the future I have someone I can talk to about it XD But really, thanks so much for the support! <3

[reeses6826]

I hope so too :)
Thanks!!!