What does he really want?

[reizvolle4leben]

Why is he here? I can't help but wonder sometimes if he's only here becuse he feels obligated to be. If he doesn't want to be here then he should go. I always feel like i'm holding him back from something more. Like he could have a better life and have fun like he wants to if he wasn't here. He says he's here to stay and that he's not ever ganna go

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*HUG*

[pyrohypnotik]

Life is never easy and we always have to live with the choices we make. In an instant this becomes that. It seems he may never change, he may not. You seem to be prepared and understand. All our stories are the same, just the names are different. I have been farther down the road, it's always the same...was it worth it? Did I make the right choices? I have learned that there are no right or wrong choices, there are only those that brought you to where you stand.

Follow your inner heart. If he stays he does, if he doesn't, life still moves on and you move with it. You're doing a great job as a mother, you are loving and kind...that is all we should expect from a human being and plenty fall far to short of that.

I believe in you and your abilities to be a loving parent, your daughter chose well.

Peace

Re: *HUG*

[reizvolle4leben]

Thnks so much. You made me feel so much better. It's good to get advice from someone who knows a bit about the kind of situation. I'm tired of people thinking they know all about it and they really have no idea. I know they rae trying to make me feel better but in actuality, it really doesn't help. I am happy that people think i'm a good mom. That'r the number one thing I was worried about.

I'm glad my daughter chose me. I needed her as much as she needed me.