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reneeks

something old I found...

Feb 25, 2011 16:05

A few days ago, going back through all my FB posts from over the last couple of years, I came across this one I just want to copy here for my own purposes. I wrote it so long ago, April 3, 2010, and even though some circumstances have changed, I still feel this way. Here is what it is ( Read more... )

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reneeks February 27 2011, 05:32:58 UTC

OH! oops I thought I set this post to private...I wouldn't have used such foul language if I had known...oh well lol. I appreciate your thoughts on this Kate. I'm so crazy confused...I have no idea what to do. I don't think he's a bad or selfish person, just maybe not right for me. DATING IS SO DARN AWFUL!!!! It's the worst. It's like on one hand, if you care about a person, it shouls be for who they are, and not because you think they'll change. On the other hand, sometimes a person might still care for someone that isn't right for them no matter how much you try to accept them for who they are. For example, I LOVE if I'm with a guy and he holds my hand or puts his arm around me if we're out in public. To me, it's like it says, 'This is my girl!' And so I know some guys aren't very comfortable with PDAs, but you know what? there's a difference between being all over each other and completely ignoring me when anyone else is around. UGH!!! So maybe there are some tings I'm not willing to compromise as far as what I'd like in a ( ... )

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reneeks February 28 2011, 13:44:46 UTC

Lol! I probably didn't set it right, and it wasn't WHAT I said needed to be private, just HOW I said it! All the swearing...oops! I was a bit peeved haha. I do think you're right about compromising too much, though. If a person doesn't lay down the rules on how they want/ expect to be treated, chances are pretty slim that person will be treated as they wish to be. Thank you for the kind wishes Kate! I AM happy 95% of the time, regardless of confused thoughts lol. It's in my nature to be that way thank goodness. I just have a hard time dealing with some of the up and down feeling with this guy. I know some of it's just me and my tendency to overanalyze/overthing things sometimes but I can't help it. My brain doesn't stop thinking and let it be when I tell it to! All I have to do is give it some more time to see if I can enjoy someone so different. I understand him I think, but I don't know if our personalities are good for each other long term. He's pretty quiet, I'm talkative. And I'm REALLY REALLY funny and he doesn't seem to ( ... )