Re: WAITING
anonymous
November 3 2005, 16:00:05 UTC
a response to her previous post, probably. for someone to call her judgemental, and her to get defensive and say why she's not. unfortunately, there are those of us that embrace our faults, and those of us that refuse to acknowledge our own and simply point out everyone else's. Isn't that called being passive aggressive? course, she will probably say that I am being judgemental here, but i don't make it a habit to habitually point out everyone's faults - just in a situation like this, where, it's obviously needed. But then - people who are that much in denial about themselves - generally do not lead happy lives, or have healthy, lasting relationships so it is their loss. ah well...
I find it amusing that someone can go on and on about their opinion of me yet remain anonymous. Regardless... I agree that there are those that embrace their faults and I find myself very much one of those people. I often own when I am wrong or when I recognize a pattern in myself, in my behavior that I feel, or others may feel to be a bit askew. I work on those things. I am constantly in the midst of self awareness and growth. Which leads me to the fact that this anonymous poster really does not know me well if they do not know these qualities about me. I know I am judgmental, I don't deny that fact, but in this circumstance I was being realistic, it wasn't a matter of passing judgement. And if reality is passing judgement (which it is an unfortunate truth), then I suppose I was. Again, I guess the 'not everyone is perfect' cliche` doesn't apply to me.
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