I'm only beginning to realize the extent that my primary fetish is consensual nonconsensuality. The things that really make me hot are those things for which I might be afraid to ask...the things that may embarrass me. There is a lot more to it than this though.
I was talking with a friend at
Vicious Valentine about our abilities to eroticize
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And yes, I can fully understand how knowing and trusting another well enough to allow them to push you past your limits can be absolutely thrilling. In our legalistic world it is sometimes nice to exist on a plane where explicit consent is not what the situation calls for.
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Yes, yes, yes...spending a little time on another plane keeps me (collective us) fresh and open to dealing with what the world throws our way!
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I am not sure how you 'found' and Friended me, but I just discovered that you had. After looking at your last couple of entries, I'm delighted to Friend you back. I too was at Vicious Valentine -- wasn't it wonderful?? I am wondering what other Scene connections we might have. Where do you live? I'm in Dayton but pretty active nationally in the leather scene.
Anyway, it's nice to virtually meet you -- and now you'll have access to my LJ too. :)
~Lara
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