More Wilderness

[republiqua]

Last night a couple of us went out to the Fiddler for a few drinks to celebrate the end of our first term. Early in the night, I got to talking with an English and a Scottish guy that were playing snooker near our table and somewhere along the line, the Scottish fellow got down on one knee and proposed marriage, to which all three of us had a good

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[5fthighnrising]

I soo identify with the feeling your friend was having. That sense of insecurity I feel is inescapable sometimes. Despite the logic, sometimes it's hard not to ignore those feelings you know? You're a sweetie to try and talk sense into her, but I guess we all have to figure things out for ourselves sometimes, you know? I think I used to be in the same boat as her, but I feel like I've come a long way since then, even though those kind of thoughts still try to creep their way back sometimes.

[republiqua]

I try to remember this sometimes when talking to people I care about, but it is all so very frustrating. I think it's great you've been able to break free of all those feelings. Regardless of whether they creep back from time to time or not. Nothing in life is fool proof, right?

[sophiasophia]

You nailed it.

And your so polite....i have had this conversation with a few women before...and i am not so polite...i find myself saying get over it, or stop being so fucking low self esteem chic. .. when in fairness I do understand...i dunno..

whatever...it is ... you nailed it.

[republiqua]

I had to try so hard not to break out the Look bitch, it's like this... talk.

Thanks for the comment, sweetness.

[radiosweethrt]

Wow. This is why I F'N love you. Really. Because you make the most complex things ever sound so simple. I wish you were here to smack me around a bit and smack some common sense into me when I get like that, and I have been like this A LOT lately. You are the sexiest, smartest, bitch alive. Do not argue with me. Thank you for this entry. I needed to read this.

[republiqua]

I could not ever smack you with anything but the utmost of love and tenderness. ;)

You're doing fine, C, just fine. But I'm glad if I could help all the same. <3

[pieisforlovers]

All the women who are independent
Throw your hands up at me...

Independent woman

[onye]

Amen baby!!

[republiqua]

all the momma's droppin' dollahs

You need to post more, I miss you.

[republiqua]

all the mommas droppin' dollahs

You need to post more, I miss you.

[_mariposita_]

Amen