Dilemma

[returntovalinor]

I hate when my mother springs these things on me!

My grandmother is currently living in Co. Sligo (about a 6 hour drive away from us) and has no family and very few friends living nearby. Because she's so far away we don't get to see her very often and my mum has been suggesting she move down to us in Cork. Recently she has been looking into buying

Comments

[lilacfaeryboy]

Go to FLAC - they are the Free Legal Advice Centre, and your local Citizen's Advice Bureau will have their contact details. They are solicitors, and you can consult them for free on pretty much any issue. Anything you say to them is confidential and they will be able to advise you or point you in the right direction.
For the moment, tell your family you want to look into the ins and outs of it (ie First Time Buyers etc), and that you just want to know where you stand. They'll need to understand that, after all it is your future.
And good luck, I hope you can get something worked out that works for everyone!