往往，许多人都抱着“享受现在”的心态。只要现在好，曾经拥有，就足够了。很多事不一定需要长久，保障，甚至永恒的。就算明知道最终也许还是得放弃，花开了却不一定能结果，但是就是为“把握现在”， 抱着一点希望而尝试。对我而言，尝试，就是为了知道后果。 不尝试，永远就会是个零。没有学习，经历。 就象在原地踏步。'It is through life's experiences that make us stronger' - 我会永远深信这句话。。。
nothing is a foregone conclusion... yet... when one chooses to remain on the spot.... one will always remain static... (refute me if u will..) yeah.. correct... as u said... if there r already hazards detected by urself... common sense will stop one from stepping into an abyss of eventual doom.... yet, being overly cautious will only hamper progess... even to the extent of being reactionary... for me.. i will only embark on a route if there r no apparent dangers lurkin ard the corner... hmm... hope i sound coherent..
I do share the same thoughts as u. As much as Im happy seeing pple attached, finding someone else whom they can spend the rest of their lives wif, I haf no confidence in my own r/s. I dun know whether it's the fear of committment (or non committment) or the fact tht I juz cant be bothered, somehow to search. I rather be there n do my stuffs n if it happens to knock on my door, ok, good. If it doesnt, at least I'm distracted, doing my own things.
Finally (throwing away the cynical me), love will come. Dun search, juz wait. ^_^
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其实，相反地，我却认为如果你不勇于尝试，你就永远无法确实地知道结果。 就拿吃葡萄来打个比方， 你吃了一颗， 知道是酸的，但是，如果你不去尝尝另一颗，你又怎会知道它不是甜的呢？若有了十足的把握，那就不叫尝试了，不是吗？所谓尝试，就是说它会带有一定的冒险性。有什么事，可以说是绝对的呢？
往往，许多人都抱着“享受现在”的心态。只要现在好，曾经拥有，就足够了。很多事不一定需要长久，保障，甚至永恒的。就算明知道最终也许还是得放弃，花开了却不一定能结果，但是就是为“把握现在”， 抱着一点希望而尝试。对我而言，尝试，就是为了知道后果。 不尝试，永远就会是个零。没有学习，经历。 就象在原地踏步。'It is through life's experiences that make us stronger' - 我会永远深信这句话。。。
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*washes CritiKal's mouth*
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well will u always gain when u venture? if something has been foreseen..wats there to gain from that? more heartbreaks...and more tears?
haiz...
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yeah.. correct... as u said... if there r already hazards detected by urself... common sense will stop one from stepping into an abyss of eventual doom.... yet, being overly cautious will only hamper progess... even to the extent of being reactionary... for me.. i will only embark on a route if there r no apparent dangers lurkin ard the corner...
hmm... hope i sound coherent..
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Finally (throwing away the cynical me), love will come. Dun search, juz wait. ^_^
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anyway ^5 to singles..
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