Stupid emotions

[rhinestonebliss]

So on Sunday I found out that a kid I went to high school with passed away. His name was Jeff and he was only 19. I wouldn't say that I was friends with Jeff, but we knew each other by name because he was Sean's friend. They don't know what caused Jeff to die. He just didn't wake up. It's sad and its scary, but him passing is upsetting me because I

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[penguinfaery]

The only moment I have been like "Bam, I shiningly messed up, there is no black and white, I was a shitty friend..." was when I didn't be the bitchy friend about drug use.If he's not in your life anymore, theres not a lot to lose writing him and telling him why.

You do have face it might mean nothing. It might also never mean anything YOU see, it might not effect him for 5, 10 years. But it also might start some sorta change.

[inkyumbrella]

I very much agree with T: "If he's not in your life anymore, there's not a lot to lose writing him and telling why."
Although, even if you decide not to write him again...you aren't in any way responsible for what he does.

I don't think it's bad or wrong for you to still be attached. You're not trying to make what he does okay. And it's not like you can just turn caring about someone on and off.

He was stupid to choose drugs over you. He doesn't know what he's missing.