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[ria2]

Though it really is sad, I have to sell some of my dolls and the outfits of the dolls on the auction.

I found some people are saying nasty things to my doll on twitter, it is heartbreaking.
She is a very beautiful girl.

Why are you being so nasty?

Comments

[suzieboots]

You have really beautiful dolls! Some people are stupid and cruel and also very wrong.

[ria2]

Thank you very much for your kind reply. I am so grateful. T_T

[monaleslie]

This may seem small, but it is a bully tactic. Internet bullies have hurt so many people lately, driving some to thier deaths. It is a serious thing.

I am sorry this happened to you and hope you will not let it hurt you in any way. Eleanor Roosevelt said that nobody can make you feel small without your permission. This is important to remember.

People like this are ducks. When you read their comments just hear "Quack Quack" duck noises. Such noises are meaningless to anyone but other ducks.

Hugs and love
Vicki

[ria2]

I should not have read those twitters, but I know one person who owns both versions of Pearl and she (who always says the default makeups are the best for Pearl) and people around that person abused my Pearl a lot. It was shocking. I actually think everyone can have their own opinions but I just do not like such things... Y_Y

[monaleslie]

In English there is a phrase, "beneath your notice". It means that the comment is so rude that it is not worthy of your attention. I wish I knew the phrase for that in Japanese.

I also wish I knew how to say, "Stop slanging my friend's doll or I'll kick you in the knackers" in Japanese. I Twitter them a message they wouldn't forget.

Too bad there is no medicine you can give this woman to cure stupidity.

Hugs
Vicki

[ria2]

*Hugs*
I used a dictionary and understood what you mean. Thank you very much for cheering me up!

[ria2]

I am trying to be strong... Their taste is certainly different with me, but my girl is not strange... Y_Y When I recall their replies (I saw various persons replied to that twitter and nobody said a good thing to my girl...), my heart still breaks, but I am trying to be strong.

Thank you very much. I am thankful with all of your replies. T_T

[ria2]

I often feel I should not read such things like twitters. I am not strong and am easily hurt by such a blame. Though I pity them as well. They are people who cannot have enough consideration, I am sad they are Japanese BJD fans.
Thank you very much for your kind reply.

Sending strength and love

[ricenoodles]

Ria, I am so glad many many of your friends are giving you their understanding and support here. I have not tried twitter, I have only live journal and facebook. Is twitter a place to be mean and proud of it? That kind of thinking is all too common. What a pity!
Many BJD lovers also buy a special doll, fix them up just right and then sell them. My opinion is that a doll, owened and loved and styled by you is even more beautiful and special than default. There are just too many wonderful dolls being created these days to keep each one you fall in love with. When you began the love of these dolls, there were not so many companies and sculpts to see. Maybe now it is fun to buy and visit with the dolls that grab your attention and then let them go to a new loving home. No guilt - just a different way to play with BJDs.
I send you a big hug and best wishes on the sale.

[ria2]

Thank you very much for your love, Sheri.
I noticed the person who listed the link of my auction on twitter with mud is still listing the links of other auctions with mud as well... What a sad person she is. When I noticed it, I felt my heart is solved a little. If "only" my girl had been blamed between some people, I must have been hurt more.

I personally do not want to use twitter. So I do not have the account, either. The count of the access for my auction is too huge compared as usual and I felt somebody did it and so is. Personally I do not think it is a good thing to say such mud-slinging to the items of the other person. It makes a few people be fun but the person who is told as a topic is not happy at all.

It seems I am spoken as a scalper or a doll snob. However I paid more for her, even with bin. I just want to find her a good home... She gave me enough joy. I cannot keep all of dolls that I bought... Y_Y