I had a friendship like that for many years. Eventually I realized that a friendship where one person has to do all the work, isn't. The really sucky part was that this friend would keep dropping me like the proverbial lead balloon to hang with their cooler and richer friends that they didn't want me around with, and then after that group fell apart, come back and want to monopolize me - but not if I was going to be all uncool about being too poor to do fun things, yanno.
Sometimes a good cry is the best thing you can do for yourself.
*GIVES BIG HUGS* that is the only thing i can do for you and say that i am sorry on what a jerk that friend was.
has this happen more then once with this person or it is a continuous thing? are the rest of your friends like this person or is it just them?
i do have some experiences with friends that i like to call "flaky," but nothing has happen like this expext for one or two occasions.
sis, you and I both know what is like to be in any sort of relationship where you have given more effort into the relationship then the other person and you know how that feels. I think you need to think about this "friendship" with the person and see if this is happening, b/c if it is it is not worth all the stress and angry. And if it is happening and you want to keep this friendship, something has to change. Call me later whenever u want to talk. *MORE HUGS*
I know EXACTLY how you feel. My best friend and I have a simliar situation. I try to see her but there's always something going on that prevents her from doing anything. We keep missing eachother by miles. I've written her letters, emails, and yet I feel as if I'm the only one actually trying. It does hurt, and I'm terribly sorry you feel that way because nobody should have to. I may not know you very well, but you seem like a wonderful person and it's sad to see you (someone who is obviously making effort and getting nothing in return) so hurt. I hope things work out for you, I trully do.
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Sometimes a good cry is the best thing you can do for yourself.
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has this happen more then once with this person or it is a continuous thing? are the rest of your friends like this person or is it just them?
i do have some experiences with friends that i like to call "flaky," but nothing has happen like this expext for one or two occasions.
sis, you and I both know what is like to be in any sort of relationship where you have given more effort into the relationship then the other person and you know how that feels. I think you need to think about this "friendship" with the person and see if this is happening, b/c if it is it is not worth all the stress and angry. And if it is happening and you want to keep this friendship, something has to change. Call me later whenever u want to talk. *MORE HUGS*
alot of love and hugs from your little sis
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