Who knew not caring could be so hard?

[ricia16]

Have you ever had a conversation with someone, and realized something very simple is very true?  Tonight I made the comment that its pointless to put the time and energy into hating something when its so much easier to just cease caring about it.  I then immediately realized that, like in so many other areas of my life, I give good advice that I

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I undrerstand, and I know how you feel.

[insaneartist79]

I know what your feeling, even though it may not be the same due to the fact you are not me and I am not you; however, there is an understanding. The choice in what you need to do is up to you. It is a struggling on feelings, trust me I know. I deal with it still, plus others are joining the train. You know, or I assume you know what I am talking about. You need to decide which feeling you want the most, and then battle against the contradicting feeling. Just as a reminder, it may take time, just be patient with yourself and hope the other person or people will be patient with you. I will tell you this, I chose the love in my heart over the hatred that is with it. Some battles you just can't give up on, no matter how long it takes. I love you. I will always try to be their for you the best that I can.

[rakamuffin]

i do that too, honey pie. it takes much practice. not seeing the person helps too. wendy from junior high/high school/dubuque sca does that to me. she's ok until she opens her mouth and then she magically transforms into an utter waste of carbon who irritates me to no end. the only thing i've found that helps is simply not being near her.