Don't worry about definitions. They are just confining and confusing. Live how you want to live. Vote how you want to vote. Cuddle with whatever sex you feel like. And be happy and sad all rolled into one.
^mouseonmars=one smart cookie. how can you be so unsure? hm...well, truthfully, i'd probably more concerned if you weren't questioning at all.
i do the post unpost thing too. it's a sign of turmoil fo sho...but everything'll turn out as it will. there's a reason you posted this, there's a reason you're feeling the way you are, and there'll be reasons behind whatever you decide to do. good luck workin through them, and know that i'm around whenever (and comon', you know i mean whenever, even if it's 5 am) you feel like chatting or walkin in silence.
i think you can just settle on not straight, because anything besides absolutely only having feelings for the opposite sex isn't straight. most people aren't. you know, that whole kinsey scale thing. and if you're just in the middle somewhere, you can be with whoever catches your eye. if you want to talk about it, feel free to IM/ call me.
i think also if you are sad and looking for comfort, it confuses things. and not that it changes who you are, but you do attend an all girl school in a big gay town. it may force you to question more than you would if you were elsewhere.
I find that labels are too DIVISIVE. Saying you're gay is really just a convienence for a stranger to lump you in a box. Sexuality, happiness-- these things are all gradients. So someday you wake up and you're gay. Cool. So you wake up tomorrow and like boys-- its not a problem.
If you feel strong, be strong. If you feel gay, be gay. And take every single day from the beginning.
I think you're a cool person, and I'm kinda sad that we're not really friends anymore. Come to Montreal, Corinne. It's good for the soul.
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how can you be so unsure? hm...well, truthfully, i'd probably more concerned if you weren't questioning at all.
i do the post unpost thing too. it's a sign of turmoil fo sho...but everything'll turn out as it will. there's a reason you posted this, there's a reason you're feeling the way you are, and there'll be reasons behind whatever you decide to do. good luck workin through them, and know that i'm around whenever (and comon', you know i mean whenever, even if it's 5 am) you feel like chatting or walkin in silence.
love ya babe.
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i think also if you are sad and looking for comfort, it confuses things. and not that it changes who you are, but you do attend an all girl school in a big gay town. it may force you to question more than you would if you were elsewhere.
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If you feel strong, be strong. If you feel gay, be gay. And take every single day from the beginning.
I think you're a cool person, and I'm kinda sad that we're not really friends anymore. Come to Montreal, Corinne. It's good for the soul.
-Zachary Durisko
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