If I decide not to go for someone/something and justify this decision with the fact that I would only be setting myself up for disappointment
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I don't think anyone can accurately tell you what you should or shouldn't do. It really depends on the situation and what the risk factor is for the supposed "inevitable letdown". If this has to do with some boy, then I would advise to take the chance, but be mindful of your feelings (booyah, Star Wars). Don't make the relationship serious until you feel that this might possibly be the one, or pretty close to it. And if he starts to try and get serious before that point happens, then DON'T LET IT HAPPEN. Be like "Whoa, step back, sugah," just like that. =D
So an answer to your question: It really depends how you look at it and how you feel about it. If you accurately know those two things, than the answer is in your face, and then it's just a matter of you seeing that answer, or not.
Hi Sarah. It's your old pal, Kevin. Ross. Wilson. The one that screams when a waitress comes up from behind him and is comfortable passing gas around you.
Now that I have refreshed your memory on how we like are totally like BF like FL's, maybe it will make more sense when I say that I can relate. Because I can.
There is this event that may occur in the quite near future that has been stuck in my head and keeping me awake at night. It is the silliest (sillyest? sillEEist?) little thing that has ever kept me awake, however, it could mean big BIG embarrassment on my part. Sorry that was so vague, but I don't need the internet creepies, like oceanavenue823, knowing my personal life.
So anyway, people can tell you to go for whatever it is that you want to go for, and be brave, but as a person who feels they are in a similar position as you, I say go for it...but do so carefully.
I'm hungry all the time too! weird. I'm also going to say the same thing as most everyone else, you never know unless you try. And there's no SURE way you're going to fail, don't set yourself up for disappointment even before you start. You never know
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GO FOR IT! ...what maggie says.
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So an answer to your question: It really depends how you look at it and how you feel about it. If you accurately know those two things, than the answer is in your face, and then it's just a matter of you seeing that answer, or not.
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Now that I have refreshed your memory on how we like are totally like BF like FL's, maybe it will make more sense when I say that I can relate. Because I can.
There is this event that may occur in the quite near future that has been stuck in my head and keeping me awake at night. It is the silliest (sillyest? sillEEist?) little thing that has ever kept me awake, however, it could mean big BIG embarrassment on my part. Sorry that was so vague, but I don't need the internet creepies, like oceanavenue823, knowing my personal life.
So anyway, people can tell you to go for whatever it is that you want to go for, and be brave, but as a person who feels they are in a similar position as you, I say go for it...but do so carefully.
Oh, and P.S. I just ate a lot.
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I'm also going to say the same thing as most everyone else, you never know unless you try.
And there's no SURE way you're going to fail, don't set yourself up for disappointment even before you start. You never know
lovelovelove :)
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