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rizzyr

a bit more...

Mar 29, 2010 17:36

Okay so it's been a couple of days. *deep breath* He fucking FREAKED when I told him. It was more or less the reaction I expected. I do understand why he's upset, but still....I did NOT need to be crying the way I was when he was freaking out. He wasn't helping ( Read more... )

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auroras_dreamer March 30 2010, 00:52:03 UTC

I wish you the best sweetie!!!

rizzyr March 30 2010, 10:32:00 UTC

Thank you! :)

ketene March 30 2010, 01:10:48 UTC

You know what? It's 2010. Don't get married unless you really want to. It sounds a little fucked up for him to dictate it to you like that. Seriously, it's not the fucking fifties anymore, it's okay if you aren't married right away. Do it because you love him and not because it'll look better.

Anyway, I wish you guys the best. My brother and his girlfriend are having a baby in a few months and they were in kind of the same position, where they can barely afford living with just the two of them. But I do think that having a baby around is a good excuse to motivate both of you to work harder and everything. I mean if that isn't a good reason to grow up, what is?? Just work hard and it'll work out. ♥♥

rizzyr March 30 2010, 10:33:31 UTC

Well, we have talked about marriage before....just something that would happen in the FUTURE. And he doesn't want to not have any rights when the baby is born (which is what happened with his daughter) so that's why he wants to do it now. And we are going to be together for a long time and we're basically married anyway....

I was just shocked when he said it. LOL

Thank you! <3

mizbhaven13 March 30 2010, 03:46:51 UTC

I told my mom I was pregnant with Shana while we were playing Scrabble. Just spelled it out right on the board. Do something cute like write it on a piece of paper and put it in one of those plastic Easter eggs. It'll ease the tension a little.

rizzyr March 30 2010, 10:34:03 UTC

I dunno if mum would like to be told that way.....

But it's clever! LOL Deffo clever!

karneol_vision March 30 2010, 09:48:49 UTC

I wish you the best!
Just please be careful... I want YOU to be happy and well, so don't overlook it if he should act like a dick.

rizzyr March 30 2010, 10:34:50 UTC

Thanks! :)

He's not a dick.....just a man. He's actually been really awesome after the initial freak out. LOL

sthrncmfrttl April 3 2010, 13:47:05 UTC

Dude. Make a small Easter Basket and put a rattle in it with a tag that says, "Please return to sender in 9 months."

And the sore boobs are nothing. It gets worse. Oh yeah, sports bras are your friend.