Comments | roben: Thank you, I've finally been informed

roben

Thank you, I've finally been informed

Jun 01, 2004 11:01

The reason: I was always mad at him ( Read more... )

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In my opinion... and_roo June 1 2004, 08:23:05 UTC

You being "mad at him" was only a bi-product of whatever caused your relationship to go sour. You said so yourself that this was a "mutual decision" between he and you, don't you think that it needed to be done? Personally, I think that it's better to "take a break" or whatever before things got to the point where you guys hated one another. I know he doesn't hate you and I'm sure that you don't hate him. At least you guys can still be friends and keep the possibility of a future relationship, if you guys decide that you want to do so, alive. I don't see where "fault" should be placed on anyone, you guys still get along, it's not like this has been some sort of disaster that's caused hatred between everybody. I'll admit, the majority of the time that you and he were in a group, at least a group that I happened to be in, there ended up being a fight of some sort, but I know that there's more to it than that and the rest of that really isn't my business nor do I want to make it my business. You were angry for a reason and that's ( ... )

Re: In my opinion... roben June 1 2004, 08:40:44 UTC

No, you overstepped nothing. After practice, I was telling Jodi, that Joey and I broke up, I was bitter, I'll admit it. Then someone came up to me basically told me it was my fault.. They were like not yelling, but they weren't nice about it. I'll be over it soon. I just wanted to state that not one person is to blame since they made it sound like I was the only one. I also agree that this needed to happen. I still miss him, but.. It really did need to happen. I just miss him. Not like he called me a whole lot before, and i understand the moving thing. I just wish he would call. I wish we could talk.

Re: In my opinion... and_roo June 1 2004, 08:53:05 UTC

Well, I've said this to other people, but (since I can't really think of a better way to put it), I'm "impressed" with the way you've been handling this, it's quite mature of you and I know that it makes things easier for he and you. And yeah, moving took up most of our weekend, that house has really been quite the job. :) I don't know if you saw it already, but he said in response to your comment on his post today that he was going to give you a call anyway. :)