So hard to learn...

Oct 17, 2005 01:56

Lesson #1: try not to let yourself fall hard because inevitably it'll come back to hurt and/or haunt you in some way ( Read more... )

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disputedangel October 17 2005, 00:40:38 UTC
they wouldn't call it falling if it wasn't so hard on you.

not sure of the entire story but i am up for the most part any time of the night (even my nights off too) and i can listen. feel free to call me when you just want to talk or anything else.

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rock_candy83 October 17 2005, 09:09:58 UTC
You know? That's a good point. I like that.

Basically I dated this guy for a month and ended up really liking him. Last night I was told that he doesn't feel the same way about me--cue the waterworks and heartbreak. I know this happens to everyone, but that doesn't make me feel any better.

Thanks for being a good friend, sweetie. If I need to talk, I'll give you a ring. =)

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disputedangel October 17 2005, 21:37:20 UTC
it never is too easy.

at least it wasn't half as bad, the first guy i dated for a long time we ended up breaking up and then he gets with this girl who was supposed to be my best friend at college, even though he hated my house when i lived there, when jennie moved in downstairs he did too, yeah blow to the ego, finally just said fuck them, and didn't talk to either one anymore.

time will pass, you know you have people there for you. take it one day at time.

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runnerfrog16 October 17 2005, 05:49:12 UTC
I can't even imagine what could've happened to mah poor Krissy.

I hope you feel better, rockstar.

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rock_candy83 October 17 2005, 09:11:20 UTC
Thanks, sweetie!

I know that you've had your share of heartache, so you can relate. You date someone, fall for them and then it just ends. While I still have hope for a happy ending, why do I have the feeling that this is going to be the story of my life?

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lexicos October 18 2005, 04:28:12 UTC
Krissy,

Your're a classy young woman looking for a classy relationship in this unclassy world. You could have anybody right now -- even the clingy and pseudo-scary stock boys at Wal-Mart -- but you choose not to. "Why is this?" you may ask, and the simple answer is that you have standards. If you lower your standards enough, you could be in a relationship all the time, no problem. But you've got class and standards, which means you demand more out of life and the people you choose to be in your life. Keep on pluggin', Krissy. Write about the month-long relationship to get it all out. Who knows, maybe it will make good fodder for a book.

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rock_candy83 October 18 2005, 17:19:35 UTC
Mo, when I read your comment this morning, I almost started crying. Don't feel bad--it's a good thing. I needed some kind of affirmation and you delivered, my friend. Thank you so much.

PS: how did you know it was a month-long relationship? Not that it was a secret, but I don't remember mentioning that anywhere.

PPS: This is SO fodder for at least an essay or two.

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lexicos October 18 2005, 23:40:53 UTC
You had mentioned in one of the responses to a comment posted that you had dated this guy for a month. Don't worry, I'm not stalking you just yet. Hehe.

I'm glad that some comforting words could be of some help. Just remember that you have your whole life ahead of you. Enjoy being single while you can. It makes traveling the world and finding yourself that much easier. Many hugs your way. Watch some Daily Affirmations with Stewart Smalley if you need to. I love Al Franken!

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