dude i do't think that it is stupid for you to hold on to her... i've been in that situation many times... you hate the girl so much and you don't want to be with her... and then you see her in person... makes you completely forget that anything was wrong... just let things casually fall back into place and you two will do great
Mach, if you need to talk gimme a holla dude for real. NO matter what people say, DO NOT EVER GET BACK TOGETHER WITH SOMEONE THAT HAS CHEATED ON YOU, NO MATTER WHAT SHE SAYS THE SITUATION IS. If they have done it once, and you have shown her that you will take her back no matter what, in her mind, that gives her permission to do that to you over and over again because you will take her back regardless. A sweet person like you doesnt need all that drama in your life.There plenty of women out there that are mature enough to be 100% faithful. The harsh truth is, if someone cheats on you, it means that they dont care about you enough to subside their lustful human desires for they few moments that they were in tempting situation.Do you want to be with someone that weak??? I know this isnt my situation and i probably shouldnt comment, but, i hate to see when good people get wronged in such a way as this.
Thanks for your concern and advice for real. I truly agree with half of what you say, but I want to give her one more chance. JUST ONE! I know that if she does do it again that I will want to take her back, and it will kill me to push her away, but it will not be my fault. Like I said, I agree with you but I don't think I could go on knowing that I didn't let her have ONE chance to change. People change Paul, but not always, and I accept that I am putting myself in the postion to get hurt again, but that's the chance I am going to take. LOVE! - Stefan
NO prob dude. Your right, people do change. Im not saying that she isnt a good sweet girl, i understand that. She goofed up, but that is a strong character flaw. I understand that it would be tough to just drop her, and maybe shes right for you, but not now. She needs time away from you to think about if her little cheat session was worth yalls whole relashionship. LOve ya, holla
Sorry about friday... i don't know what happened. I did not wake up until about 1:00. I was freaking lazy. We will reschedule and I'll keep my deal this time... i promise. BE STRONG!
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Thanks for your concern and advice for real. I truly agree with half of what you say, but I want to give her one more chance. JUST ONE! I know that if she does do it again that I will want to take her back, and it will kill me to push her away, but it will not be my fault. Like I said, I agree with you but I don't think I could go on knowing that I didn't let her have ONE chance to change. People change Paul, but not always, and I accept that I am putting myself in the postion to get hurt again, but that's the chance I am going to take. LOVE! - Stefan
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We will figure something out. LOVE!
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