my pondering thought of the week

[rockin_]

if someone liked you but you didnt like them back, would you rather them tell you or not ?

just one of those random things i think about. feel free to comment.

Comments

[beatnut]

no.
it might be weird after they tell me.

[_punkmonkey_]

Yeah it would boost your ego haha. Funny I was thinking about this very subject last night o.o I don't know how to answer them though, it would crush them if they really liked you and you didn't like them at all, there's no way that you could make them feel better... I'd probably feel really sad for them lol.

[rockin_]

hahaha. an ego booster at the cost of sadness...

[_punkmonkey_]

Meh it works haha

[regularperson]

HMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM. Well if it was a girl who liked me, I would want her to tell me so I can set her straight before she gets all girl-on-girl freaky. And by setting her straight, I don't mean converting her to being heterosexual. Just to let her know that I'm heterosexual. HAHA.

If it was a guy on the other hand, depends on the situation. If we were friends, really good friends, then I think it would be okay if he told me. At least he would know for sure that I didn't so he could move on. If we were acquaintances or practically strangers, then he should probably have the guts to ask me out on a date, which I could totally respect him for. And if he was convincing enough, maybe I would give it a shot. One date wouldn't hurt. But just to come up to me and say, "Hey I like you." What the hell am I supposed to do with that?? Okay... Move on, loser. Haha.

And there are a whole bunch of other factors you could throw out there. But I think I covered the basics. How about you? What's your answer?

[rockin_]

very good answer.
i think i'd rather know just cause i wouldnt want them keeping it inside. sometimes, that is rather painful. and even if i didnt like them, at least they could move on to better things in life. lol