The art of subtlety

[rockstarwriter]

There are only two times that I can't seem to control myself. One is when I'm extremely drunk and I must have something to eat. The other is when I meet an amazing woman. I can't seem to contain my feelings. I have to let them know, as soon as possible, that I really, really, REALLY, want to get to know them better. Did I mention that I want to do

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love takes time....

[anonymous]

john, i just wanted to add my 2 cents from the woman's side. subtlely was huge for me. sure, if a guy was really forward, we might hang for a night, do whatever, but i didn't want anything more. i usually never wanted to see him again. i'll tell you that i met patrick 4 years before we hooked up. i liked him but i was in a bad place, anthony had just broken up with me... we worked in the same place coincidentally 4 years later and it took another 6 months before he even asked me out. then it took another 5 dates before we even kissed. i knew how i felt about him and it was fun and scary not knowing if he felt the same. i even slept over at his house one night before we had kissed and slept fully clothed on top of the covers. we always hugged goodbye. so when he finally did ask if he could kiss me, after asking me to slow dance in his room, the build-up led to these crazy overwhelimg emotions of wanting something so badly and finally getting it. so, if you are going for nice girls, girls worth being with, subtlely is your

So true.

[rockstarwriter]

Jas,
Thanks for filling me in on this. I know its supposed to be this way, but sometimes, be it from lonliness or lust, one can't help himself. Obviously restraint is the way to go because really, we're not cavemen anymore and the ladies seem to like it when the testosterone-fuelled sex keeps its emotions in check in the name of romance.