Comments | rockykitten: i... don't know what to do.

rockykitten

i... don't know what to do.

Nov 21, 2009 00:46

it started totally innocent, i swear. i turned on the computer, and myspace messenger started up. ignored it, and opened up internet explorer trying to find out if you can smoke feverfew (still didn't really find out. didn't find anything saying it was poisonous, but erring on the side of caution...) anyway ( Read more... )

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jalajscion November 21 2009, 08:52:57 UTC

I have my thoughts and questions on this which needs to be discussed verbally on the phone. You still should have my number. Call if you need too.

rockykitten November 21 2009, 09:17:36 UTC

i fuckin hate phones. especially if i'm emotional about something. you have my email, though, if you're goin for more privacy.

sariel_t November 21 2009, 09:56:25 UTC

I have no words. I'm ... rather teed off, on your behalf.

rockykitten November 21 2009, 10:14:10 UTC

yeah. i'm not sure what i'm going to do. its very tempting to throw what stuff he left here at him and kick his ass out. but at the same time, i want our child to know its dad. if i made him leave i'm not sure i'd ever see him again...

capoeira727 November 21 2009, 13:19:44 UTC

I have some advice for you:

*I will preface my remarks by saying this PISSES ME OFF*

Call this motherfucker out on this shit. If you don't, it will eat away at you and the relationship. If its not okay with you, then you need to respect yourself enough to say so. It will be an AWFUL convo, but necessary.

Second, don't EVER bust your ass for a man who doesn't respect you or care about you. If you all cannot work this out, throw his bitch ass out on the street. Trust me, no one else is going to carry him.

rockykitten November 23 2009, 02:21:10 UTC

called him. went pretty well, but didn't accomplish much of anything. did get to hear him grovel and beg, which was definitely satisfying.

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rockykitten November 23 2009, 02:24:27 UTC

its funny, for me the sex acts themselves are never what i'm pissed about. i get pissed because it was really soon after a conversation about not doing exactly that, or because while he was cybering i was being ignored.

he fucks up again, his groveling will only go so far.

d0wninit November 22 2009, 02:14:31 UTC

That kind of desperation in someone who's supposed to be there for you, especially in your time of need, is down right pathetic. Seriously, why does he need internet girls? Just to have a little fun? There's so much more he could be doing and probably a lot more that he's missing out on.