So maybe you didn't ask for my opinion, but I'm giving it to you anyway.
If I were either of these girls, I would think you were a major asshole. If I were Jeordie I would be HELLA pissed that my boyfriend, who apparently "loves" me, is spending so much time with another girl and telling her he loves her (Oh, but in a different way..So that makes it okay?!) If I were Ashley...Well. I wouldn't be Ashley because I do NOT scam on other girls' men. Period.
Regardless of how you want to try and look at it, this is the reality:
You need to stop jerking these girls around. You need to figure out your shit because you can't have them both. Don't fool yourself into thinking it'll be okay if it continues in this fashion.
Ughh sorry if this seems..mean and angry. Hahah. I just get worked up and honestly, this whole post pissed me off.
like i said. "something stupid." as far as "in a different way," i don't even know how to explain it. never said it made it okay. i know this makes me seem like an asshole and i really do feel like an asshole. just stuck right now. stuck. a lot less than i was when i posted this, but still emotionally attached to both. and it doesn't feel good being in this position. both girls know about each other. i've told jeordie that i really like ashley a lot. and i've told ashley that i'm with jeordie. maybe my mormon upbringings matters with polygamy is finally surfacing. haha.
Maybe I'm a different kind of girl than the ones you're with, because I really wouldn't be able to handle a situation like that. This sounds so harsh, but I just would have left you spinning on your ass.
I feel like you should probably just take a break from the both of them so that you can think clearly about what's going.
Then again, you are speaking to a girl who is somehow completely emotionally unattached from everything. It's a little eerie.
i know it's gonna be jeordie that i'm with in the end, it has to be. i honestly dont see myself getting involved with anybody else as i have with her. i can't even take a break about it even because i love her so much. and she loves me a lot, too. i really dont know what she would do if i even told her i want a break to figure things out. she would automatically assume that i was breaking to be with ashley and that i would never want her back. now i'm not going to say that she should respect my decision to do so because i have no right to do that, i feel, with everything that's going on, she has every right to refuse and get upset. I already broke up with her once because i wanted to try ashley. through everything i put her through and everything that she's going through right now, for goodness sakes--it's just unjust to even try it. i'm even helping her pay off her medical bills because it's just one of the many things she cannot handle on her own in this current time, with this current job, with this current residency. and for some
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If I were either of these girls, I would think you were a major asshole. If I were Jeordie I would be HELLA pissed that my boyfriend, who apparently "loves" me, is spending so much time with another girl and telling her he loves her (Oh, but in a different way..So that makes it okay?!)
If I were Ashley...Well. I wouldn't be Ashley because I do NOT scam on other girls' men. Period.
Regardless of how you want to try and look at it, this is the reality:
You need to stop jerking these girls around. You need to figure out your shit because you can't have them both. Don't fool yourself into thinking it'll be okay if it continues in this fashion.
Ughh sorry if this seems..mean and angry. Hahah. I just get worked up and honestly, this whole post pissed me off.
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i know this makes me seem like an asshole and i really do feel like an asshole. just stuck right now. stuck. a lot less than i was when i posted this, but still emotionally attached to both. and it doesn't feel good being in this position.
both girls know about each other. i've told jeordie that i really like ashley a lot. and i've told ashley that i'm with jeordie.
maybe my mormon upbringings matters with polygamy is finally surfacing. haha.
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Maybe I'm a different kind of girl than the ones you're with, because I really wouldn't be able to handle a situation like that. This sounds so harsh, but I just would have left you spinning on your ass.
I feel like you should probably just take a break from the both of them so that you can think clearly about what's going.
Then again, you are speaking to a girl who is somehow completely emotionally unattached from everything. It's a little eerie.
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