Oh my goodness - thanks so very much folks - for just being there! I don't know if you all know what you're replies to my last post mean to me
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katyhh would like him - he's from Hamburg! Welll ... I'd certainly like to see you here more often, but the most important thing is that he makes you happy. The rest is secondary even if that meant we'd have to travel even further to see you. *snugs* Don't write him off cuz he tells you uncomfortable truths, though. A good friendship is very important for a potential stable relationship, and friends should be allowed to tell you truths. Otoh he should be gentle and comforting with you, too. Always here for you to talk, sweets. Wrong turn? One can never say that for sure, I think. Starting up again with O. was a questionable thing, back then, but the changes were really visible and so I understand there was hope it would be permanent. So - it could have been a wrong turn to not try, just as much. Look forward and not back, my dear.
Am, if anything slightly surprised, since I'd kinda gotten the impression you'd split up with him awhile ago. All that single living and all - but yes, I do understand how the difference hurts more still. Take care of yourself, please. I heartily second the "I hope and pray you will find the love and happiness you long and deserve someday" above! *'notherhug*
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I shall have to send good relationship karma your way. *insert strange special effects noises here*
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Welll ... I'd certainly like to see you here more often, but the most important thing is that he makes you happy. The rest is secondary even if that meant we'd have to travel even further to see you.
*snugs* Don't write him off cuz he tells you uncomfortable truths, though. A good friendship is very important for a potential stable relationship, and friends should be allowed to tell you truths.
Otoh he should be gentle and comforting with you, too.
Always here for you to talk, sweets.
Wrong turn? One can never say that for sure, I think. Starting up again with O. was a questionable thing, back then, but the changes were really visible and so I understand there was hope it would be permanent. So - it could have been a wrong turn to not try, just as much. Look forward and not back, my dear.
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You are such a wonderful person and friend. I hope and pray you will find the love and happiness you long and deserve someday.
*hugs again*
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Am, if anything slightly surprised, since I'd kinda gotten the impression you'd split up with him awhile ago. All that single living and all - but yes, I do understand how the difference hurts more still. Take care of yourself, please. I heartily second the "I hope and pray you will find the love and happiness you long and deserve someday" above!
*'notherhug*
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*a really big big hug*
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