A question and a quiz...

[rondastarr]

A question to the women on my flist...

Do you find that you compare yourself phyisically to other women you see? If you do do you generally find doing that makes you feel better or worse about yourself or do you just set up things you see in other women that you like as goals for you?

Your result for The Attachment Style Test...
The Free Agent

Comments

[rondastarr]

I do too and depending on what mood I am in I can really get down on myself. Usually though if I see something that I think is attainable I try to see it as more of a goal. Stuff like great hair, nice skin, a nice rack or a great ass I just figure with some more work I can get there, or a better bra, lol.

Yeah I am working toward strength goals now until I can get my medication fixed and start to able to focus on weight loss. Right now my goal is to be able to Bench Press 135 and from there to able to get through a 5x5 set at 135... it's gonna take a while :)

[this_is_kelly]

When I look at other women in a comparative way, I usually look at their stomachs and wish mine was flat. It's really mostly the stomach. I'm not as concerned with my arms or thighs (stupid thighs).

[rondastarr]

Yeah that is about what I do too. I look at different parts wish I looked like that. The more I go to the gym the better I have gotten but I still do it...

[rose_starr]

I do compare myself to other women, but they're almost always random women I see out and about, and not anyone I know. Mostly, it makes me feel worse about myself, first for comparing at all, and second, because I can always pick out my flaws in the face of other women who don't have them.

*sigh*

[rondastarr]

I do it but I can't say that making the comparison makes me feel bad it usually just that they look better and I can't figure out a way to look like that.
I think every women probably does it...