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[roscoep_butters]

I can't believe I'm writing this but I cant help it. Jami has finally broken up with me. Or being truthful, finally openly admitted that she doesn't love me anymore which has been true for months. You know its kind of funny, this is normally this last thing anyone would actually use livejournal for, to tell the whole world something personal. But I

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[elahadrun]

ross, I love you and I miss you very much.

A roommate of mine just figured out we could steal wireless from our neighbor. feel free to email elahadrun@yahoo.com.

::hugs of missing and support::

[master_cobweb]

Ross, I know we haven't been in touch, but I still think of you as my friend. I miss you, and I can understand how much it sucks. If you need to talk to someone, I know I'm not the most convenient, but I'd love to hear from you, and I'm told I'm quite a good listener.

My mobile number is 44 7716 002 271, and my email is glamrockhecate@yahoo.com.

[master_cobweb]

p.s. you have to dial 011 before that.

[tgjerusalem]

Ross, please, call me or email me or something. Please be careful, please don't hurt yourself, I'm sorry, I know this sucks.

[flying_octopus]

Dearest Ross,

I understand that you are upset, but please don't reduce my feelings for you this way. I care about you very much; you are brilliant and creative and despite what you may think a, constant intrigue of depth and emotion. Please understand that in the end this is best for both of us. Like I said last night, I very much would like to be your friend, and if you give me your mailing address, I'd like to give you some $ for rent. You did spend a lot on gas et. this summer, and for once I'm in a good financial situation.

Everyone loves you Ross, and I beg you have the courage to show them that beautiful person you keep inside. No one will be disapointed.

[flying_octopus]

PS I understand being mad at me. Feel free to bad-mouth me all to hell if it makes you feel better. I will harbor no hard feelings.

Ross

[gabenichols]

We're still your friends but you have to understand how we were seeing this, there were months when after speaking to you Jami would be in tears. I understand you thought you were getting over the rough patch and moving on but a relationship needs to work for both people. This relationship for the past year has not been working for Jami. She tried, she really tried, often against the advice of numerous friends and her own better instincts but you guys just really didn't have that much in common. Relationships need friendship and shared enjoyment of company in order to form a basis. No matter how much you love each other if you don't enjoy spending time together it won't work. Jami loves horses and long hikes through unmarked paths in the woods. You, well ... don't

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[roscoep_butters]

Gabe, I'm going to try and be brief. Your reply was really outside the limits of decent. You described my relationship with Jami of three years as not based on friendship, and spending time together. You brought up personal things that passed between us with neither my nor Jami's permission. Could I return in kind? I cried after those same calls. I forgave Jami as often as she did me, and likewise often against the advice of friends. I don't want to have to respond to these ignorant, arrogent and above all condescending and insulting comments from people like you who honestly know nothing of us. I already really stretched the bounds of acceptable public demonstration but you have completely violated it, and in addition insulted everything I hold dear about Jami. I dont want any kind of response from you, don't even think of apologizing to me. I dont know enough about this site to know if you can remove this post, but if you can please do. It is ruining an otherwise unbelievable outpouring from people who I respect and care for. You'll