fucking decisions

[rose_mary]

i dont know what to do. if i decide to spend christmas with my family in south africa, away from Ray in paris, then he might change his mind and decide that he doesnt want me to come back. what would i do then huh? it seems ridiculous to me that im willing to sacrifice christmas with family just because he might change his bloody mind. but i am

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[maybe_themoon]

if he truely loves and adores you so much, he would understand that you feel the need to go visit your family in south africa for christmas. i think it would be ridiculous if he changes his mind and doesn't want you to ever go back just because you want to visit your family in south africa for ONE holiday.
- have you considered taking him with you?

[rose_mary]

its too expensive. he wants to, as he would get to spend time with his bestest friend, but it costs a fortune. also, im not quite sure i want my parents to meet my *coughs*48yearoldboyfriend*cough* until they absolutely have to lol.

[brieboo]

You're probably just being paranoid, and even if you aren't, you don't want a guy who would leave you if you went to visit your family for Christmas. Obviously, I'm sure he'd rather you be with him, but if he's worth your time at all, he'll understand. You deserve someone who deeply loves and cares for you.

[salmon_wielder]

SLAP!!!

Judith? I love you, but you make some really poor decisions. He's what, three-ish times your age? You really need to rethink this little thing. He's 48. You're what, 19? 20? NOT A GOOD IDEA! Judith, if he does love you, he'll wait for you. If you love him, you'll give him that chance. It's a trust issue, and if you can't trust him to let you come back, he's not your person. If he loves you, he'll be happy to let you go. If not, he's not worth it anyway.

Now then.

HUG!!!

We all love you Judith. If you need someone (or a place to stay or whatever) call me (c: (7) 306-9183, h: (2) 531-7306) or Brie (c: (8) 248-8492, h: (7) 460-3214). And your family loves you, too. They'll let you stay with them. Trust me.

Love you!

[unibomber223]

what Bill said

[rose_mary]

oh dont give me the age shit. if i cared i wouldnt be here would i. anyway, im happy here. that was just a moment of indeciciveness. it has since passed. if you met him you'd both be singing a different song entirely.

love you anyway :)

xxx

[rose_mary]

oh and thank you. i know youre just trying to help.