trying to be positive

[roshini]

its been a long time I wrote here. I am so not confident. what does it take to be confident. What should I do to have some and why am I so negative. My mom thinks I don't believe myself and so I am so negative. I do not recall incidents in life which would make me the way I am but I can never get myseld to think positive. Its bothering me and my

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[seizureinquiet]

I have also been a very -ve person. When I was growing up, I use to never take initiative casue I thought -ve and my friends used to scold me always. I later started observing people who I thought were better than me and realised that a lot of them talk more than what they actually are. So. then I told myself, dont have a complex because of others and I started making it a point to take initiative and think positive. It helps to be confident and has helped me a lot. I wouldnt call myself an optimistic person but better than before.

[latelyontime]

Positivism: The art of knowing when to show the finger to life! :)

I think thi is a good move. To fight against odds, to be comfortable with who you are, to give space and accept that you will survive.

Good luck! :)

thanks

[roshini]

yup guys thats right have to have the attitude to be comfortable with life... will try...