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[rougedragon]

I'm 21 in a month. And I don't know who my friends are. I'm almost dreading my party (whenever it will be, it's going to depend on if I get this new job) because I have always pictured my 21st to be a great big bash, but I just don't know where I am with people anymore and I'm worried it will just flop

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[hana_bazootie]

I really liked all your old geelong friends, they seemed like they were there to honestly celebrate you. (last year on your 20th)

I'm sorry to hear you're so confused with your friends....I used to question that myself, but now I've stopped questioning why some of my friendships are so pointless and hollow, and instead started just hanging around the people who I love being around, and who have some sense of honesty in the friendship. I feel there's a significant difference in the gut feeling I experience when I'm with good friends and merely "fake" ones.

[enigmaticdream]

Thats true, there is a difference of feeling with good friends and ones that are just hollow. Sometimes it can be hard to tell if they have the same feeling. I think you just have to enjoy the company of those you can have fun with.

...this sounds similar to an end of relationships rant.

[iggo]

Just invite all the people you don't actively hate. That was my philosophy.

[enigmaticdream]

Ha! I like that! Or just use my philosophy of boycotting a 21st party all together. But I am very lazy.

[purple_wolf]

*hugs*

I get what you're feeling. We've all drifted apart, a lot more than we probably would have liked.

Like you and I, we live like 10 minutes drive from each other but see each other maybe a couple of times a year. It's stupid.

I know with me it has a lot to do with time. I have so little of it that when I'm not at work or at uni I just feel like veging out on my own at home. Or when I do feel like doing something I don't have the time to do it.

I was at Vic Gardens three times in the last week. Once I was with Mum but the other two times I wondered if you were at home and if I should give you a buzz so we could catch up. But I simply didn't have the time, had to rush back home to write and essay or go to work.

Have a big bash like you want to, invite the KIC group. Those of us who can show up will show up.

[yaholo]

I'm still your friend!

I hope...

And I would be up for regular drinkies anytime!

Also assumeing I am invited to your 21st.... give me decent notice so I can work something out with work. Its unlikely I can get off, but I can at least shuffle shifts around.

[dinnersuck]

Hey I got your voicemail before...I was in class till just now. I'm fairly certain it was from you, but I couldn't understand a word of it, it was all fuzzy. I tried msging you but for some reason I don't have your number on my new phone, I lost most people's numbers with my old phone. I'll get your number off you when you're online next!