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[rougedragon]

My house used to be such a happy house.

Now it's a house full of accusative and finger-pointing notes.

I don't like it anymore.

Comments

[hana_bazootie]

I'm sorry to hear that, it sounds like you guys really need to talk about it because i'm sure they're not enjoying it either. a house is suppose to be a place of refuge and calm, it's not good for anyones health to be like this

[pouncefurqueen]

aw hun *hugs* i know exactly what you're going through. i had a horrible roommate situation several years ago. you really should try to address it as soon as possible or it's only going to get worse and worse. but i'd suggest writing out exactly what you want to say, cause i know when i get into that situation i get all overwhelmed and defensive and then forget most of what i wanted to say. *hugs* i hope it gets better sweetie. let me know if there's anything i can help with or if you just need to talk.

on a side note, could you send some healing thoughts my way? i'm away from home for a conference for a week and i'm sick :(

[rougedragon]

*hugs* you poor thing. There's nothing worse than being sick away from home! Let alone at a conference!!

I left her a note on the fridge saying that (among other things in reply to the one she wrote this morning) we need a house meeting...soooo fucking scared of the confrontation tho!!!

[pouncefurqueen]

I know what you mean. But it will be good. Even if you don't get everything worked out perfectly, it's important to talk about it and get it settled one way or the other. And don't back down for yourself either. A healthy living environment is one you can feel comfortable and safe in!

[amethyst_shadow]

agreed.

goodluck rougie *hugs*