hunnington beach, hmm? my aunt and uncle have a place there! we usually go up to see the fourth of July parade ^__^
yeah, cheating is...bad, and it really hurts if you're the victim of it. i dont think ive been cheated on, but if i ever were to be, id forgive them, but i dont think i could date them anymore. it would just be too weird ^^
Sometimes people cheat because they feel their relationship no longer has that same feeling when they first started with it, if you know what I mean. :P I think that reason is the most valid, but still, I disagree with it mostly as you can, more than likely, get that "spark" back into your relationship somehow. ;)
Well if that spark is not there anymore, take a break and date around. See if you meet someone else. Don't keep them hanging on a string while you go around searching for the next lust of your life. You know?
The whole "Lets take a break thing" only makes whats obviously a complicated relationship worse. In most cases thats when someone ends up cheating on the other. Because the real reason someone would even become suseptible to lust and or cheating on their bf/gf is communication. If the two dont communicate theyre bound to end up hurting one another. If not by cheating, then in some other way.
Ive had feelings for people who were taken and all I can say is that it sucks. Im not the tempting type, so I would never do what you mentioned. Its no good when you love someone and they dont share your feelings. And its even worse when you try to take away the happiness they have by trying to win/woo their heart from someone else. Time is the only cure for this, but time mocks those who love someone and arent reciprocated.
"Cheating is for people who don't know what it is to be considerate; and that takes some pretty pathetic character traits."
...glad to know how you feel about me. Though I can understand your anger at the subject, and I totally respect your opinion, those of us who have done something so bad aren't truly bad people at heart. Though, if that's how you feel about me now that you know that I have done that in the past (but I haven't since I've been in college), then I understand.
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yeah, cheating is...bad, and it really hurts if you're the victim of it. i dont think ive been cheated on, but if i ever were to be, id forgive them, but i dont think i could date them anymore. it would just be too weird ^^
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Ive had feelings for people who were taken and all I can say is that it sucks. Im not the tempting type, so I would never do what you mentioned. Its no good when you love someone and they dont share your feelings. And its even worse when you try to take away the happiness they have by trying to win/woo their heart from someone else. Time is the only cure for this, but time mocks those who love someone and arent reciprocated.
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...glad to know how you feel about me. Though I can understand your anger at the subject, and I totally respect your opinion, those of us who have done something so bad aren't truly bad people at heart. Though, if that's how you feel about me now that you know that I have done that in the past (but I haven't since I've been in college), then I understand.
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No matter how strongly you feel about a subject, look at the opposite angle to try and better understand what you're against.
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